Why: Are Our Emotions So Strong?

       Now, don't take this question as me making emotions out to be a bad thing. That's not what I'm trying to do at all. I'm just..wondering..why we feel soo deeply. If we didn't we probably wouldn't be hurt as much. Then again if we didn't we wouldn't be as happy as we can be.
       Take what I'm asking from the view point of a depressed person. They feel depression very strongly obviously, right? Well why? Why do they feel that way? There are obviously a large amount of reasons, but I'd like to know how they end up feeling it so much stronger than everyone else. As well as people who get angry fast. Of course, these are both negative perspectives of strong emotion.
       Now there's happiness and love too. Which are positive emotions...Then again that all depends on what exactly you're in love (or whom) and what you're happy about. Like someone who's obsessed. Why are they? What makes them love or hate whatever it is so much?
       I don't know if this makes sense to anyone out there..But it's just a thought; a question for the world.
       So tell me..Why?

How: Should We Express Ourselves? By Our Choices Or Our Abilities? (Asked By Sierra)

       Our expressions are an extension of ourselves. Whatever we do to express ourselves is how we know what our true colors are. Really the way you choose to express yourself doesn't matter. But what you do while you're being expressive is.
        This question for me can't really be answered with a firm answer. There's no way to justify everyone expressing themselves in one way. Expression is like imagination. No one can tell how to do it. It's all your own. So if you choose to express yourself with a choice is up to you. If you choose to express yourself by ability that's all you. No one can tell you otherwise.
       Of course many people may disagree with me...And if you do please feel free to explain why. This is only my opinion of the question! So go ahead and tell me...How should we express ourselves?

What: Is More Important? Appearance Or Substance? (Asked By Connor)

       To answer this question honestly you have to think about the type of person you are. Are you the type of person who thinks mostly about outer appearance or do you look at personality and the type of person they are. People these days are among the shallowest. They don't see a person for WHO they are, they see them for WHAT they are. Which is unfair, wrong, and hurtful.
       Someone's appearance can change. Take make-up for example. A girl can do A LOT with make-up... She can completely hide what she looks like from day to day and you wouldn't even know. As for guys they can be just as fake as a girl. They can hide their true interests and be who they think you want them to be. A girl can do the exact same thing, and really they probably do it more. What I'm trying to say is, with all of that, people can end up hurt, very quick.
        Who someone IS, is different than who they WANT to be or who YOU want them to be. When you're open enough to let someone be who they truly are then you're relationship will be stronger. No one will have to pretend with the other. There won't be anything to hide because everything will be out on the table. That seems pretty simple...but for a lot of people, trust me it ISN'T.
       Now that's just relationships...With ANYTHING this question can be asked to. But to make it simple...Or the question at least...Would you rather have something LOOK really good...or would you rather have it WORK really good? Well that's the best I can dumb it down (no offense).
       So answer the question...Appearance or Substance?